Saturday, June 19, 2010

[10.06.14] Dongwan’s memolog: The age of individualism. (p.s note added)

What the age of individualism means is that it’s an era where it won’t do if you don’t establish your individuality
Before falling in love or getting married.
Establishing your individuality means that having the ability to sustain yourself financially.
You can’t have spiritual independence without financial independence.
In advanced countries, independent women like actresses and models are preferred.
In short, no one bothers about women who are foolish.
Foolish women are not those who didn’t do well at school.
It’s those women who are unrefined, boring to talk to, do not come into contact with music and culture,
Have no curiosity and have ahjumma mindsets.
It can’t be helped, just like there are more and more rotten men
There seems to be more and more women who can’t do anything right.

- Ryu Murakami in “Dare ni demo dekiru renai

p.s.
Women all hope that men have money and cars,
(for example thinking that the average man has a yearly income of 50 million won… -_-)
(approx USD45,000)
They say that men can’t have the attitude, nor the figure of an ahjusshi,
Seems that they don’t have too many of their own thoughts.
There are many men around me who are troubled because of women like this. ㅜㅜ
Ah! Also.
If you feel that ‘married woman=ahjumma’
You should examine your own life!
A married woman can still have the mind of a young lady~
You can’t give up the ‘woman’ in you just because you’re married and have children!
Because you’re firstly a woman before you’re a mother and wife~^^

p.s.2.
While reading those words do you regret nodding in agreement…-_-
That’s why you shouldn’t marry someone like me or the author! ㅜㅜ

Credits: Dongwan’s Naver blog + Absolut Shinhwa

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